Tuesday, 12 August 2025

The arrival of the BER months and an end to 2020

 



Everyone knows that I am so not a fan of the cold weather or at least they learned quickly!

Here I have complied a lot of "love letters" as one parishioner referred to the weekly mailings that I send out.  September through to December are contained here so it is a very long post by my standards.  

A Dogs life in a parish

Once the Monkey Mail got going well and I learned how to jazz it up with pictures to make it eve more appealing, Aslan, who is an office dog, began to make occasional appearances that morphed into weekly appearances and even the occasional call to see if he was in and could be visited – at a safe distance from me but Aslan was not required to abide by the same rules.  So, he “suffered” through all that was asked of him for each mailing that he was included in.  Aslan’s appearances brought joy to many and his antics brought lots of laughter.  With the advent of Covid in 2020 Aslan was about 10 months old.  There were lots of puppy play and goofiness but he really is an old soul and very patient with all of us

This post also marks the end of the pieces that were written in 2020 so a new year will begin and the Monkey mail will continue as we navigate through the next steps in the parish and dealing with our alternate reality.

September 3, 2020

Hello everyone
When I said the Ber months had started it must have been a typing mistake because it is BRRRR! months and a bit shocking to the system unless you wear a perpetual fur coat!

What do you need to know?  Well, we will be outside for worship on Sunday and given the change in the temperature not a moment too soon to be finishing.  The frog weather says 20 degrees and cloudy, I'd suggest a warm sweater, coat or blanket if you find it as cold as I do!

Pre-registration, have you done it?  If not and you plan to be here the Incumbents warden has graciously agreed to do it for Sunday September 6.  Please do so soon if you plan to attend, usual restrictions apply -- 6 feet distance, BYOC (Bring your own chair) masks are recommended but not mandatory for outside. The service will, as usual, be on the blog and I think we are live streaming!!  One more detail I almost forgot!!  I will find a willing "volunteer" to help, never fear! 

On September 9 we will have a celebration of life.  The service will be live streamed for you to attend.  ONLY FAMILY MEMBERS will be in the church -- well besides myself, Rachel on piano and Doug our trusty technician for the camera to bring the service to you. 

Registration for September 13 will be done through the office beginning on Tuesday September 8 when the new office administrator begins.  You will need to have registered your intent to attend the service on Sunday September 13 no later than noon on Friday.  Only 50 people are allowed in the building.  Our service on the 13th will be a wonderful celebration with baptism.
The service will not be live streamed but it will be recorded and made available as soon as possible after we conclude worship.  If you are wondering why,  we need to zoom a baptismal sponsor into the service to participate and it will strain the system too much to run zoom and to live feed, but never fear you will be able to see the happy occasion from home just a little later than in real time!

I will send out the self check list for inside services next week.  There is enough information in this one for now.  There is lots happening and we are doing our best to make sure that we have a safe environment for those who choose to attend services.

In the mean time, stay well, stay safe and break out the warmer clothing

September 10

Hello everyone

It's a beautiful Thursday afternoon but I am already started with my layering.  I've seen a few raised eyebrows but hey I'm cold.  Someone said, "my goodness then what are you doing in Winnipeg?"  

As you are aware we held the celebration of life.  If you were able to connect via the live stream wonderful, if not you can still watch the recorded version (the link was inserted here)

Now for details for this coming Sunday. We are welcoming a new member to the St. Paul's family.   If you are planning to attend and have not already registered the deadline is noon tomorrow.  The office administrator will be in the office to receive your calls the office number is 204 475 7549 or you can email the parish office.  As of now there are 35 registered (50 is the limit).  As well please brush up on the expectations in the protocol.  A self check list is attached to this mailing. The link is at the beginning and hopefully it works. Please print as you are able, fill it in the morning of the service and bring it with you.  No Printer? No Problem!  We have made copies and you will be asked to complete it in the hall entrance before proceeding to the greeters table in the Narthex to be assigned your seat.  I can't tell you how excited I am....people will have to sit in the front pews!  Oh and I'm excited to see you too of course.

For those not yet ready to return do not fret.  We have you covered as well.  However, we have a slight delay to deal with.  Yes, the service will be at 10 am but the recorded version will not be available until later in the day (hopefully).
We can not live stream and have a god parent present via zoom because we do not have enough broadband (I'm sure it's Dutch to some) suffice it to say the wi-fi is not strong enough to carry it.  Yes, before you ask, we are attempting to rectify the issue but it won't be in time for Sunday!

So as soon as the recorded version is uploaded by zoom then we will send you the link via the monkey mail.  It may more likely be an evening event for you so instead of coffee maybe a toddy of some sort or a lovely glass of wine to help the service go down more smoothly.

No you all can not join via zoom, again the strength of the broadband is such that we will crash the system here.  So, your patience is appreciated, we are all on a steep learning curve. 

Have an enjoyable weekend, and stay safe

September 14

Good morning
For those still patiently waiting, the wait is over.   Doug had the video of yesterdays glorious celebration ready to send last night about 7 pm.  I was at a benefit concert and arrived home later than usual and did not send it out to you. So here is the link

Our Bishop joined us via “Zoom”, participating as a Godparent.

Doug writes: Please note that the audio and video quality are poor due to the internet speed currently available at St. Paul’s, not your home equipment.  There are plans to upgrade our internet service this week so that future streams will be much improved.

As well you are reminded that you need to register for the Sunday worship services.  Our maiden voyage saw 41 people in attendance of the 44 that registered so we nearly maxed out.  It is vitally important for you to be considerate of others who want to attend and register ONLY if you are going to attend.  We understand the occasional last-minute cancellation because a person is questioning a symptom or not feeling up to par (Please call in the cancellation or send an email to my personal address or contact one of the wardens)

It was so good to see so may of you, and the shaking up of the seating plan moved a few Anglicans about!  so, sing away today your put your right leg in, take your right leg out ....and shake it all about!  You know play with the words a bit.  Now that I've planted that song worm in your head 

Have an enjoyable, beautiful day!

September 17

Hello everyone
It's a gloves and hat kind of morning if you are out walking.  I also had on 4 layers because I refuse to break out the winter coat. 

September 30 is quickly coming so dig out your orange shirts to honour the survivors of the Residential Schools, to remember those who died while there and raise your voice That all Children Matter.  September 27 is the Sunday closest so let’s see a wave of Orange from those in attendance and of course at home!

There were a few announcements that needed to be included this week

Now on to Sunday Service!!
It is with thanks to Doug that we are going to be live streaming via YouTube so people not on Facebook can find the service with a bit more ease.  The link for the live feed is also recorded (so if 10 is too early) you can always watch it later in the day from the comfort of home!  The link is 
https://youtu.be/NtBeKHYxRP8

If you are planning to attend you have limited time left to register!!!  Registration closes Friday at noon.  As of now there are approximately 20 registered so there is room BUT only if you call!!  Don't forget to do your self-check before coming and if you have printed it off fill it in and bring it with you (signed and dated of course so we know who it belongs to!)

Announcements in Church can be done but at the moment I am the only one delivering them.  So if you have an announcement for church please call it into the office or email it and I promise it will be read out, sent out, shared by all means available! 

In the meantime, have a lovely day.  Stay safe and if I don't see you in the pew. I'll see you on the big screen (or the computer...whatever works!)

September 24

Hello everyone
I feel like an old gossip!!  Never the less I have information for you.  
I have been reminded that those at home following the service still need the words so I am trying to remember to add the service to the blog, and then remembering to publish it either Saturday evening or Sunday morning.  So never fear, the blog will be ready for your, at home convenience and in case you have lost the address it is kjlaldin.blogspot.com

We will live stream via YouTube again this week and the link is  https://youtu.be/2PKHp22zWAY.  You can also view the link later as the service will be recorded.

In trying to collect the keys to the building from the renters we discovered there were an extraordinary number of keys on the loose in this city.  Some groups had as many as eight sets and still weren't sure that they had collected them all to return.  A bit of a nightmare!  So, the outside locks have all been replaced.  If you are a proud key holder, I have to tell you some bad news...the key won't work anymore.  In an effort to control traffic through the building keys will currently only be issued to those who absolutely need access.  If you have had a key in the past and really need to get a new one then we do ask that you contact one of the wardens or the property chair who has been tasked with this great key challenge.  And you might win the draw of holding a key to the kingdom!

A new Progress is being planned and our editor is looking for reports and articles.  So put your thinking caps on and dust off your pencils, deadline for submissions is September 25.

I've been reminded to include the Self Screening check list that we collect each Sunday.  Well after an hour of trying to get this monkey mail to insert the link it absolutely refused.  I even tried uploading the thing again all to no avail.  Thanks to RC, she figured out how it could be attached and the link is below.   Remember to do the check list on the morning of the service, write your name on it and date it as well.  If you forget to bring it with you or can not print it off, no problem we will have lots available at the entrance for you.  
 
If there is a particular service that you would like us to offer for you, please let me know and we will do our best to put it together for you to enjoy

Stay safe, stay well and don't forget if you are attending the in person service you need to register at the office by noon on Friday, numbers so far are low so if you are concerned about giving others an opportunity because you have been here in the last few weeks, not to worry I won't mind asking you to let someone else have a chance if we reach the magic number of 50 and have a waiting list!

Have an enjoyable day!

Let's finish with a little Newfoundland colour.  This is part of the beautiful Humber Valley and was my daily drive for four years.



September 28 Code Orange Update

Hello everyone
I know a number of you have been wondering what the new directive from the diocese would be since Winnipeg and surrounding area have been upgraded to code Orange.

The Bishop's directive highlights:

Presently, our protocols for worship are acceptable and affirmed by government standards:

1. Attendance is permitted at 30% of worship space capacity, provided that physical distance between participants is no less than 2 metres,

2. A maximum of 10 participants for non-worship gatherings, meetings, weddings and funerals.

3. Baptisms and anointing/laying on of hands will remain in suspension at least until code Orange has been lifted.

4. Masks are mandatory for all participants while attending all Church related events.   

5.Celebrations of the Eucharist may continue with renewed vigilance for risk reduction. I understand that the removal of a mask to share communion may in fact increase the risk of spreading disease. I also understand that parish communities across the diocese have put much research, thought, and effort into their reopening plans, and I encourage our leaders to share their best practices with one another, and their new methods of sharing communion,

6. There remains no congregational singing. However, a soloist, appropriately distanced from others, is still acceptable. Musical ensembles are permitted, provided they are appropriately socially distanced and they don't include instruments dependent on human breath.

7. Each community discerns for itself whether or not to facilitate corporate worship, including the number of participants, and the administering of the Eucharist. 

So the good news is that we can still have our worship services as per the present protocol with some minor tweaking that the leadership will visit through the coming week and be  ready for on Sunday.

I would remind you that registering is very important, you may do so by calling or emailing the office and a few of you have sent the message to me when you miss the Friday deadline (Yes, I always now the numbers the office admin sends them to me before she leaves the office) and while that practice is not encouraged we still let you in as long as we have not maxed out our numbers!

Stay safe and as the church sign says Trust God BUT wear a mask

October 1, This is brought to you by the letters SPFG

Hello everyone

Well, the months are zipping along.  We said good by to September and Hello to Thanksgiving!  And before we know it November and Christmas.  

We had great plans for this Sunday and services to bless pets and all the fun and joy that comes along with that, but alas Bars can have 100 people in them but we can only have 10 people safely socially distanced outside.  Given our attendance would have been slightly higher (but not nearly close to 100) we had to cancel.

Given the concerns that have arisen and the increased anxiety of many of our members the wardens and I had a brief consultation and decided that for the time being we will host Eucharist every two weeks. The service for Sunday was done, but on Monday I recreated the whole thing and we will now have the service of the word (or a close similarity).  I have included some fun bits for St. Francis of Assisi as it is St. Francis of Assisi Day.  And if you are going to be in church, please bring a picture of your beloved pet for the blessing time, if you are staying in the comfort of home then you can include your pet in the service.  We will have a blessing of the critters!  Yes we will livestream on YouTube, I'm working on the assumption (this could get me in big trouble) that it will be the same link as before.

And the printed version will be up on the blog so you have the words to follow along  and if you feel like sleeping in the service records so it is available at your convenience!  Imagine, you could pause me or even better fast forward the sermon!  The possibilities are limitless, I feel like you could change the speed like we did on the old LP players to speed up or slow down the music, I should definitely not be planting ideas.

Those who registered early, bless you. It made it so much easier to select my victims (oops) I mean my volunteers for the readings!  Thank you in advance and I know some of you haven't checked that email yet today and confirmed but you're in the service now so its a bit hard to say no. Ha! and I take Friday off so no changes.  But thank you for participating

Next week there is a communion scheduled as we celebrate Thanksgiving.  Despite Covid we have much to be thankful for and celebrate we will!  I encourage you all to remember those less fortunate and supply a tin for the bin, a donation or whatever works best for you.  I do know that our food banks depend on us to help keep the shelves stocked so from our abundance of blessings let's fill the bins...should I leave out 2 or 3???? More you say, well if you insist!!!

Registration, have you done it yet?  Tomorrow is the deadline.  So be sure to call the office before noon to get on that list.  Yes I know, late additions send me a note and I add them but if at all possible lets keep that limited.  SO NOON TOMORROW.  And don't forget Masks are mandatory, Do your Covid self check list the morning of, bring it with you or snag one at the door we keep a supply on hand.

And  a big thank you  to the four volunteers that came in this week to sanitize for Sunday.  The Wardens are endeavouring to have a cleaning service contracted soon

I have yet to finish taking holidays and have four weeks of them left, along with some education time.  Education time I'll snag here and there but I have set nearly two weeks in October, directly following the synod on the 17th and two weeks in November (I think I blocked the 15th) But I will confirm that as it gets closer.

I think that is all of my newsy bits for this week.  Hope you are all staying well and most definitely keep safe.  If you need me, I am but a telephone call away, I even know how to do google duo so we can see each other if you prefer that.  And I do occasionally do a face to face socially distanced coffee for those who are comfortable with it.

Have a wonderful Weekend, enjoy the fall colours and crunch

October 1, The thing about assumptions

Hello everyone
A Bishop once took the time to explain to me what assume really meant, I can tell you I was less than impressed with that bishop (for many reasons this was just one more in my long list) but his inappropriate explanation still lingers. (I bet you are wondering)  I did tell you as I included the YouTube link in the email of just a short time ago that assumptions can go wrong and sure enough I hit send and ten minutes later DC called to say there is a new link every week soooooo here is this weeks link that will allow you to join us for the service on October 4, and the blog address remains the same

If you misplace it you can also find it via the website and the Facebook page
Now stay safe!

October 8, Thanksgiving

Hello everyone

Well, if you didn't figure it out, I made a "boo boo" last week.  I had the blog all done and ready to publish and I Forgot to hit the publish button, until Monday morning when I realized what had happened.  It won't happen this week!!!  I have already hit the publish button so it is on there and ready for you whenever you are ready for it. kjlaldin.blogspot.com

We have had a few technical issues which are constantly being worked on to get the kinks out.  So, while we understand that you are used to us being nearly perfect, as you can see our imperfections have been shining through while we figure this all out.  Never fear we will get there --at least that is the hope!

For those attending the service in person please remember an item for the Food Bank Bin.  The need has likely grown for many.  Bins will be in the Narthex area for drop off.

If you have not registered for service yet, there is lots of room. As of this morning there are but 15 registered.  Noon tomorrow is the deadline

It has been a busy week but a slow news week here on the home front!  Services for the 18th and 25th are in place with two of our retired clergy graciously agreeing to lead services.  ML will be returning to the big screen and BO will be making his debut.  Meanwhile I will be on holiday, directly following the Synod on the 17th and returning October 30, just in time for All Saints Day.

The new Up To Date was sent out today so most bits are in there that you need making it a short message from me this week

Have a Wonderful Thanksgiving Weekend, I know that it will likely be more subdued than usual however God's goodness continues to flow into our lives and for that we give thanks

Stay well and Stay Safe

 October 16

Hello everyone
Well at 630 am it was cold walking; Aslan didn't seem to mind but the person on the other end of the leash keeps trying to rush his morning meandering.  He was not to be rushed and rebelled a little -- that did not last long!
Shortly after I looked out the window, blinked then looked again, just in case I was hallucinating but no there was white stuff and it was landing and it looked for a short period like it was going to stick, fortunately it did not.  I am not ready for winter!

What's new this week you ask, well the provincial numbers are a disaster, I feel like "smacking someone up the side of the head" to knock some sense in them!  My DH assures me that it won't fix it.  Someone this morning said "well, you can’t fix stupid" but I'd be willing to lock them up and give it a go!  Volunteers anyone??

Tomorrow I am on holiday for nearly two weeks. The honorary assistants have graciously agreed to cover pastoral concerns in my absence.  These will not be in person visits but telephone talks. I will be back on the 30th to finalize any details for November 1 (All Saints Day).  If you have a loved one that you would like to have remembered during that service please let the office know and we will compile a list.  Even if you are not attending in person, you are welcome to call in the name of your loved one.  Have a candle ready (battery operated or match lit) and when we do the memorial piece you can turn on/light up your candle.  For those attending in person I would ask that you bring a battery-operated candle with you.  We will endeavour to have some available should you forget.  

Oh yes, the link for Sunday, I nearly forgot! Here it is

https://youtu.be/5cV3DIkRgVc

The words are on the blog and yes, the blog has already been published!

With Halloween just around the corner and the day care where Aslan sometimes goes throwing a pooches Halloween pawty we are working on his costume!  This is our first attempt,


but I think he'd rock the clergy shirt and collar better!  I'll get on that one later tonight.

Have a wonderful weekend, I hope that I have given you a little smile today despite the difficult times that we are currently in, we look to better days in the near future.  Apparently, bars are closed for the next two weeks -- so much for my bar hopping holiday ;)

Have a fabulous weekend

October 29, Service Information

Hello everyone

Yes, I am back in the office early, to be honest with the exception of merely not taking two services and preparing sermons I may as well have worked with the amount of email traffic that shot into my inbox every day.  (I know why I resisted a smart phone for so long) and NO shutting off my phone is not an option with an aged mother who has dementia issues and siblings who refuse to make decisions.  That indecisiveness ended yesterday and I no longer consulted I dictated (my siblings tell me I am good at that) what they would be doing next and early this morning they had hopped to it and by 7:15 am I had an update!  

Otherwise yes, I did get lots of craft items that were works in progress finished and managed to get two parcels in the mail.  But why oh why did I think I could embroider a table cloth in time for Christmas, I have about three weeks to get that finished and in the mail.  It gets worst, I actually thought I'd get at least two finished which means there is another one sitting there waiting.  Well, I tell myself that I didn't actually say it would be this Christmas!

I watched the services from home these last two Sunday's.  Sitting on the couch with a big mug of freshly roasted, freshly brewed coffee -- yes, I can definitely see the appeal.  But I had a problem, when that camera slewed around to focus on the reader I was left guessing who this person or that person was under the mask.  It was like show and tell.  I could tell who some were but others I could not recognize -- it was like being teased for the whole time

DC has been playing with YouTube and St. Paul now has its own channel!!!  Talk about getting put in the movies, perhaps we will become a YouTube sensation!  So, tell all your friends, get them to subscribe and let’s see if we can hit a million (likes that is but dollars would be great too!)  Here is the information from DC:

St.Paul’s now officially has a Youtube channel where upcoming live streams and previously recorded services can be found.

The link to our channel is: 
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1PjLywZrpISPEHLiyTEiVQ

This link will not change from week to week as we have done in the past - the channel will be kept up to date with upcoming and recorded services.

Navigating our channel:
Home Tab for upcoming live stream
Playlist Tab for previously recording and upcoming services
About Tab for more information about St. Paul’s  and links to our Website and Facebook page.

So how about that, now your job is to publicize this information broadly so people tune in.

The blog with the words to the service will also be published today, not bookmarked yet well the address is kjlaldin.blogspot.com

Some of you asked and I have listened.  Guided Meditation for those who are interested will be set up via a meeting room through my Gmail.  If you are interested in being part of the guided meditation please email me and I will send you the link on Monday!  Oh yes, when will I host it?  Monday evening at 7pm.  The dates will be November 2 and November 9.  Then November 30, December 7 and December 14 to begin.  The goal will be to help ground you, relax you, reduce anxiety -- basically whatever you need.  Guided meditation is not for everyone so I won't be offended if you decide its not for you.

Upcoming services, what do we have planned

Then I'm finishing up the holiday time for two weeks and Rev. TS will be leading the worship.  That takes us to the end of November and there are big plans underway for December -- but you are not getting that news today I'll let you anticipate what might be up our sleeves!

We need a few more volunteers to help on Sundays as greeters and readers. We have been working off of the list of people that register their intent to be present week to week.  The greeters have a slightly different or more extensive role.  Greeters do not merely welcome the people during these days but also seat them safely distanced.  If you are willing to do this occasionally, please call the office to ask the office admin to put you on a list.  Many of the greeters that we had before the pandemic are choosing to worship from home so we hesitate to contact people in the event that you are not yet going out much in public or ready to be in a slightly larger gathering.

The Up to date and a few extra bits of information have been emailed to you from the office.

Have an enjoyable day! And stay safe!

Have an enjoyable, beautiful snowy day!

October 30, It is inevitable

Hello everyone

It was definitely preventable but ultimately inevitable Manitoba, Winnipeg in particular, has gone in a red zone!
Churches have been reduced to a 15% capacity and the bishop has asked that we consider not meeting in person.  I considered, asked the executive for input and the decision is to cancel all in person services effective immediately.  So, there will not be an in person service this Sunday.

However, there is a plan.  I always have one of those in my back pocket.  We will live stream on Sunday morning.  Present in the church there will only be the musicians, AO who has been doing the webcam so faithfully and myself.  We will do the service that was originally planned and that is already published on the blog. 

I hope that an ounce of prevention for safety now sends the numbers down, people recover and then we can go back to doing something in person.

For those who had registered your intent to be at the service please send me an email letting me know that you have received this notice.  I will be in the office tomorrow morning calling everyone that I don't hear from to confirm that you know about the change.  I will also send you an update concerning November 8 as soon as possible.

Please do your best to stay safe

November 5

Hello everyone
Last week we flew by the seat of our pants!  And did a quick reversal of meeting in person to everyone stay at home.  Thank you to all who responded via email, it meant I dropped Aslan off at 9:30 for his Howl-a-ween Pawty (yes in costume and yes, he bobbed for apples and wieners) and then headed into the office to make approximately 5 phone calls.  We are going to be in this for a while yet and here at St. Paul we have planned to continue with recording and uploading to YouTube, we will revisit the decision at the end of the month.

I know we have knitters in the congregation ... I need a volunteer to knit me a Mary, Joseph and a Donkey.  I can acquire the pattern and email it to you so that everything is safely done.  Are you wondering what's she up to now??? I have a plan for them! 

Because we are unable to get together to observe Advent as we usually would I would like us to have them travel to as many homes as possible.  Say for example TS and his partner are the hosts the first night, then they would select someone for Mary and Joseph to travel to the second night and so on until Christmas Eve when that family (or individual) makes sure that Mary and Joseph arrive to the church for the service (assuming that we can have some small in person service (if not I'll think of a back up plan!)  I will have prayers included for people to do together and perhaps a sheet that people can write in names so that we know where Mary and Joseph have travelled and are able to avoid repeat visits!  But first things first I need a volunteer to knit the characters for me!  I think this can be done safely distanced

The service for this week has been recorded, DC is polishing it up (editing it)  We did observe Remembrance Sunday and we tried to include as many people as possible.  So special thanks to all those who participated

The advantage of recording is more people can "volunteer" to participate.  I am sure most of those who participated this week have raised their eyebrows on that and gotten a laugh!!

The blog is up!  and the link to the service is there, however if you click on that link today you won't get anything as the service for Sunday will not be uploaded for viewing until Saturday evening!  Anticipation is good for you!  

Just in case, here are the links
kjlaldin.blogspot.com

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1PjLywZrpISPEHLiyTEiVQ

These link addresses don't change.  May I suggest that you hit the subscribe button on the YouTube channel and then any additions should come to your inbox, (in Gmail it usually appears in the social tab)!

At the very end of the blog there are a few music pieces for Remembrance Day that are out there in YouTube land for your listening enjoyment.

I think that is it for today, just watch I'll hit send and poof I'll remember something I was planning to include

Have a wonderful day and stay safe

Have an enjoyable, beautiful snowy day!

November 21, Christ the King Sunday

Good Saturday Evening

I nearly forgot to upload the blog, despite RC and TS sending me the material.  So, it is just published (kjlaldin.blogspot.com) and I have embedded the YouTube link for the service tomorrow.  Many thanks to TS for taking the services these past two Sundays.  I have been finishing up the holiday time with only a few workdays tossed in.  Although I must confess, not being able to go anywhere has been a bit boring!  My mother asked me what I was doing to pass the time and I told her I was walking the streets (pun intended) Sorry I have a weird sense of humour and am easily entertained.  I tell myself it helps keep me sane.  One day I’ll tell you about shopping for a funeral suit.

10,000 steps have become a bit of a slow day.  I have met a few more neighbours…well not exactly neighbours but they live in the neighbourhood, so close enough.  I’ve come home with a few of their life stories and they have no clue what I do for a living.  I could have used a purple stole for a few!   

I did manage to complete a few projects but still have a couple of large cross stitch pieces that need stretching.  I don’t like that part of the process so I have been avoiding it!  And now framing is definitely not considered essential goods (little this government knows) so it would appear it won’t be matted and framed anytime soon so I guess that means I can avoid it for a bit longer, but it really needs to come off the ironing board just in case it needs to be used for what it is intended for.

RC has been busy at the church getting services recorded and will be sending out detailed information about her project soon so stay tuned.

PW graciously agreed to make Mary, Joseph and the Donkey.  A candle and holder as well as a travelling liturgy will all be included with the trio.  They will travel to homes throughout the parish during the Advent Season.  DM is making the travel diary and I hope those that are visited and become hosts for Mary, Joseph and their Donkey will agree to snap a picture and send it for posting on either our Facebook page or our webpage.  I do think that we can safely do this, despite all of the restrictions that we currently face.  I am suggesting that when you deliver the trio to the next host, you call ahead to let them know that you are coming.  If they live in a secure building, they meet you at a safe distance for the drop off or if you are going to someone’s house you hang the travel bag on the door, ring the bell and then step away (sounds like something out of the movies…step away from the door).  The trio do not stay longer than one night as they have a lot of ground to cover.  The person with them on Christmas eve should arrange for their return to the church.  And just imagine next Sunday they begin their adventure as we kick off the first Sunday of Advent.   The Book of Common prayer collect for the first Sunday of Advent begins, “Stir up we beseech thee O Lord…”  I think I will let it kick in tomorrow and whip up a batch of cinnamon raisin bread.  Since the cleaning is done and the carpets are scrubbed the house should now start to smell like baking.

My DH thinks I’m downstairs watching television while I am writing to you all!!  Fortunately, he’s not on the mailing list and has no idea what I am up to.  So, it goes without saying, stay safe and be well this too shall pass

Have a wonderful day tomorrow   

November 26, Advent 1

Hello Everyone

I was thinking as I uploaded the service and links to the blog for this week and started thinking about the service for next week, that I have to go in and keep a copy of my love letters to you all.  Some day I’ll publish them, make a million and give you your ten percent, that has biblical basis.  The nonsense that you can’t wear a mask because it’s against your religion doesn’t.  So has the church sign currently says … Trust God BUT wear a Mask!  

It has been a productive morning.  My article for the Progress has been written and sent.  Thank you to the kind parishioners who ask the recurring question for the inspiration!  You will know who you are.  The packages of the travelling trio have been prepared and mailed and I have had a visit (from a safe distance) with the Odogun family.  They send their thanks for the care and support that they have been given.

The Travelling Trio, Mary, Joseph and their Donkey made minor adjustments made to their travel plans.    After considering a number of options it was ultimately decided to select 26 families to host Mary, Joseph and the donkey as they travel through Advent. We did not feel we could hand off the knitted characters safely or sanitize. Watch your mail box -- to see if you will be one of the hosts of the trio. Yes, we resorted to snail mail!  This way we could include a few people not connected by computer. So please, if you are in contact with such a parishioner, please give them a heads up! If you are lucky enough to be given the opportunity to offer your hospitality, we ask that you take pictures and submit them to the office and TC so that they can be uploaded to the Facebook page and website. Don’t have TC’s email not to worry you have mine and you have the office email send it to us and we will be happy to forward it for you. This way even if you are not a host you can watch the journey.

Also, we ask that you add a few comments about their stay with you and we can keep a travel journal.  The idea is to have a little fun and be creative.  If you have your own nativity at home then feel free to use your characters.  If you do not have a nativity set, don’t panic!  We have included a paper one for your use that you can put together.  You can colour it or leave it black and white.  Those receiving packages (yes, I know who you are — I have the master list) will find a label on the outside telling you what day you get to open it, a letter explaining what we would like you to do, a paper nativity, a service of welcome to do at home and a pamphlet about Mary and Joseph.  Again, have fun with it and do send us pictures and comments. 

Are you all impressed? that I even found you an option for a nativity, well don’t be too impressed with me.  In 2014 (this is not a typo) ML and I (we go way back) were having lunch and she told me about this lovely nativity that you could print off and people could use at home without going through considerable expense (three pieces of paper, ink and scissors).  I asked her to send it, she did and all I had to do was go back in the email 6 years and voila!  there it was!  So, ML, many thanks for sending that all those years ago.  And yes, if any of you would like to have your very own to make just send me an email and I will happily forward it to you. 

The service for Sunday is recorded, the link is embedded in the blog.  The blog in case you have not bookmarked it is kjlaldin.blogspot.com.  Yes, it is published already because if I leave the office without having done that, I may not think about it until next week!  It has been suggested that I set a timer on my phone but that seems like too much of a bother when I can simply hit the button when it is done.

RC and her crew are still plugging away at the project that she has undertaken.  Yes, get your wallets ready!!  Hopefully we will have advertising and brochures and all the good stuff (like full information and not teasers) ready for you soon.

I think that is all of the bits I have for you today, in case you’re wondering, yes, I’m still walking the streets (sticking to my neighbourhood) getting to know a few people.  Every now and then my DH goes for a walk with Aslan and I (everyone knows Aslan there) and occasionally someone calls out to me by name and my DH looks at me and says …you know those people?  Duh of course they aren’t picking random names out of the pot and giving it a try. Aslan and I are fixtures on the streets apparently.  

Have a lovely weekend, stay safe and be well

 

December 3, Advent 2 …And welcome December

December rolled in nicely with milder weather which I am sure everyone is enjoying immensely.  Like most weeks this week has been no less busy and now to figure out how much information I need to load on to you!  Quite a bit actually!

We have been having email issues!  We got kicked out of one of the programs and despite numerous calls we were unable to track down the passwords.  That meant we could not get mass emails out to you, except by monkey mail hence the notice from Rachel earlier this week. 

Now it seems we are back in but not necessarily have all of the specific groups transferred in their entirety.  The Up to Date was emailed today, did you get it?  If not don’t tell me but email the office  and let the administrator know who among us seems to have gone missing —yes I have gone missing from the list, but that might not be a bad thing.

Many years ago, my friend, who is a social worker, said avoid the smart phone or black berry.  If you get one you will never have personal or free time again.  I resisted for many years but my flip phone would no longer work and I had to go to an android.  Then I refused to give out my number and sync the thing to my email because the cell phone was for my convenience, not everyone else’s! and lo and behold changes occurred again and for some functions you needed the email attached - - - you see where this is going, my friend was absolutely right.  So, I finally decided to create a work address for email.  I would kindly ask you all to do the update in your mailboxes (nlgirlnmb@gmail.com) and send work related messages here. This email will be checked when I am in the office.  In the event of an emergency (such as illness, imminent death or anything of the like) then please do not hesitate to call me.

You have all received RC’s note and poster about the extra events.  DO NOT PANIC!  Regular services are taking place every Sunday.  We just finished the service for this Sunday and DC is gone to work his usual magic with the production.  This week we are having a virtual Eucharist.  Please have wine and bread ready at the offering time and we will set our tables and join in God’s feast together.  Now just a few little points:  we sip the wine, we don’t gulp!  You only need a little in the glass/chalice - not the whole bottle!  Bread of course is of your choice, (bread, rice crackers etc) but again a little goes a long way!  No loaf needed!

Advent 3 I thought I would try something else so it is quieter and more thoughtful in style.

Advent 4 will be a service of the word 

Christmas Eve, depending on how this Sunday goes, is planned to be a celebration of the Eucharist as we join with Angels, Shepherds and the Holy family in celebrating the birth day of our Saviour

Christmas Day, tag! TS is on!  And he will bring a special service for Christmas.

Now that was as far as I planned!  Then RC says “what did you want to do with the last Sunday of December?”  I gave her a blank look and then the calendar was opened and what to my wonderous eyes should appear was December 27 - A Sunday! Not Santa and definitely no reindeer.  Never let it be said I wasn’t up to thinking on my feet.  Do you have a request for a carol?  For many years I have had a very informal service on this “low” Sunday with lots of carol singing since we have such a short time to fit them all in.  So, lets see if we can stump the pianist and send in your requests, she’ll sing them all!  Sounds like fun you say and you want in on it, well in that case contact our music director RC to see how you can upload yourself or your family bubble doing a carol.  Can’t sing you say — of course you can, so let’s have some fun with this!  I wonder how many songs RC can sing all in one go!!!  So, get those requests in by December 17.

Now I need a little feed back.  Some have asked for no mask when recording the service.  Problem is we are trying to remain in compliance with recommendations and when we record at the church there are usually at least three of us here.  Are you fine with the mask off only during the sermon (as we tried for this coming Sunday?)  RC and DC who are recording went to the very back of the church when I did this part.  For the communion piece the mask definitely has to be on, since again there are at least two more to receive and I am too close to the bread without it.  If you prefer the whole thing (except communion) to be mask free then we will have to do some adjustments with where we stand when we are recording.  

And our travelling trio are out and about.  We have garnered a lot of followers, some days the post gets well over 200 hits as people travel along on the advent journey with Mary, Joseph and the trusty donkey.  So far there have been very warm welcomes.  The pictures have been going up on St. Paul’s Facebook page so if you and your family are hosts we encourage you to keep adding to the pictures and the travelling journal.  Feel free to use your own creche (or make your paper one).  Pictures can be sent to the office or T C to be uploaded.

I think that is enough for one week, I am sure there will be lots more to share next week and it will be fun to see where the trio are off to next and what they experience.

Stay well and stay safe

December 10, Here’s what’s Happening

Where do I start with the news for this week?  

There are so many things on the go here I have post it notes stuck everywhere with lists of who will be participating in the Advent 4 service and who will participate in Christmas Eve service and let’s not forget the last Sunday of December!  Speaking of which — WHERE are those REQUESTS???? We need them by the 17th, so please send them to RC.  For the singers of the congregation that want to participate, record at home just get that email recording to Doug but please let us know that you plan to participate.

We have had a wonderful response to the special event that RC and Co. put together.  One parishioner was particularly excited and sent a note along asking how she could turn it into a gift for families that may be struggling this year, here is what she wrote:

More opportunities for 'Connecting at Christmas'!

“As we mark our Centennial year as a parish, it is with excitement that we await the release of our two videos celebrating Lessons and Carols and Christmas Eve. Many of us have likely already purchased links and are set to go. However, many of our parishioners may simply not have the financial means, particularly in this year of great challenges, to pay for access to the videos. Here's where the 'more opportunities' comes in. If you do have the financial means, you are invited to purchase one or more additional sets of links to be offered to other parishioners who otherwise would not be able to view what promises to be some amazing works of story and song. This would be done anonymously on both ends, with only Karen aware of who the gift givers and gift recipients are.

How will this work? If you are a parishioner who feels unable to afford this purchase at this time, but would like to view the videos, please contact Karen 204 880 9124 or email her. If you would like to offer a gift, please e-transfer to St. Paul and in the message box indicate 'For an anonymous gift to a parishioner'. Thank you to both gift givers and recipients for considering this opportunity”

I can tell you that there have already been people that have done this and that is before seeing Trish’s message.  Rachel and I had done some planning around this but parishioners are well ahead of us!

This Sunday the service is different that previous weeks!  We aimed to slow down and make it quieter and more meditative.  We hope that we have succeeded! Yes, the blog is published.

The Progress is published and emailed to those on the computer and mailed to those who are not. 

We will have an intern with us from Trinity College in Mid January.  Susan will join us somewhere around the 11th.  In 28 years, this will be my first time having an intern to supervise — there were some benefits to being in the rural parishes, one seldom (actually never) got asked to do any of these things.  Four parishioners have graciously agreed to join Susan and I on this path. There role is that of a Lay Support Group for Susan and to provide feedback, reflection and just generally be a support for her.  Who are they?  I can hear you asking. I’m tempted to keep you in suspense!  TS, AJ, AO, and LR were agreeable to being part of this so we are all learning together.

The travelling Trio — how could I forget them!  They are loose in the city and wandering all over the place.  The stories that have been shared of the experiences of the hosts are fabulous and the pictures are great.  People are having so much fun and I am thoroughly enjoying reading them.  The creativity is awesome.  We are keeping a physical journal here at the church, we know the archives are going to want a record!!  Perhaps Linda will include excerpts in the next Progress for everyone to share.  At the moment their journey is posted on Facebook if you would like to follow along.  I know it’s not ideal but we do our best to keep people connected in whatever means we have at our disposal.  Last I looked the trio had over 300 people checking in on them.

My DH always asks what I wrote to you this week, grumbles that I haven’t added him to the mailing list so he can read for himself — I leave out the bits I don’t want him to know I wrote.  You guessed it, he’s still not added and NO don’t forward it to him!

So let me leave you with this picture of Bruce — he had just finished building a shelter for the donkey for the evening —a no pet condo and no garage meant a little improvising!  Lucky, I haven’t had to host, I could just imagine putting the donkey in the garage and in the morning needing to shovel….(manure yeah that’s the word I was going for!)



Have a Fabulous weekend

Stay well and stay safe

December 17 Advent 4 and Christmas Eve

Hi Everyone

I’m a little early today. I have a funeral this afternoon. The gentleman said, “Really you’ll come and do the funeral even though I’m not your parishioner?” And I replied “YET” So I get the honour of celebrating the life of their loved one with them for a very short time today.

Now I have a confession and a question — piqued your interest now didn’t it. Confession first, it’s good for the soul! Last week’s Service for Advent 3 was recorded in two sittings. To make sure you didn’t notice Rachel informed me what I was wearing so I would have the same outfit on, but she missed one little detail. How closely did you watch the service and did you notice the one wardrobe change? If you did and you are not from the Cameron household, or the office — I’m tempted to turn this into a competition — yes lets, first one to send me the correct answer, yes, it is something visible, will get a little surprise from me, only not a visit since they are not allowed yet. I can just see you all reviewing this one closely and the number of hits for viewing increasing!

Advent 4 Service is posted on the blog, the YouTube version will be available for you on Sunday morning.

Christmas Eve is in progress and the readers have already sent the material to Doug, I do my bits tomorrow and then Doug works his magic. I have to say the visuals make the services fabulous and I worry that when we get back in person that we are not going to be delivering the extra sensory quality. I hope being back together makes up for some of that.

Christmas Day, Tim is doing Eucharist by zoom. If you are interested in attending please contact Tim and he will set you up.

The office will be closed for Christmas, messages will be checked and the office admin will be in on December 30 to check e-mail. If you absolutely need to come in for any end of year things please make sure you arrange it with the office. Our admin says the only way she will change being in the office on the 30th is is she hears we are having the mother of all storms and needs to come before it hits! 2020 has been bad enough we definitely DO NOT need that!

December 27 Service had a request deadline — it is today December 17! If you did not get your request in yet to RC so that your favourite Carol or Christmas Song is sung you have until end of the day today. I’m going to take liberties and say until 11:59 pm. So get those requests off to RC, if you don’t have her contact information just send them to me and I will forward the request to her, no I’m not waiting up that late, I’ll send them early in the morning.

I almost forgot the travelling Trio, they have been making their way around the city. Some pictures and travel journals have been sent and we have been posting on Facebook. This travelling trio gets nearly 300 hits every time we post their latest stop. So if you have been a host and haven’t sent along pictures or details of your visit with the travelers then send them along to us and we will be happy to share it with others One of my former parishioners got in on the fun and wrote “They were in Curling Newfoundland and looking for Rev . Karen. We told them that she had moved to Winnipeg and that her and her husband were happy there. They told us that they had to pass through Winnipeg and would look her up. We also gave them a good old Newfie meal and they were very thankful. Mary will soon be giving birth so she gets tired easily. We wished them all the best on their journey and we will watch and listen when the glorious birth is announced.” Joyce and Don Perrett

I’m just sorry I didn’t think to mail it across Canada and let the Trio make their way West, I am sure I know a few people in every province. We have had lots of interest in this fun project for Advent from old and young alike. Always another year! Yes, the resources have been shared with some friends who want to try it next year, it seems it looked like we were enjoying this and they want to get in on the fun of welcoming Mary, Joseph and the Donkey

Well, I’m off to the funeral chapel and at the most inopportune times I get a song worm in my head about going to the chapel, but for an entirely different purpose. Although I had a man tell me one time that he no longer goes to church after his really bad experience. I was concerned and asked what happened, he replied well you see I went in single and I came out married! On that note…

Have a wonderful day, stay well and stay safe

December 24, Christmas Eve

Christmas officially started in Newfoundland yesterday! An old tradition called Tib’s Eve (or Tipsy Eve as most locals refer to it) kicks off the season. Yes, it is friends that gather, much drinking takes place and then we go home to spend the remainder of Christmas with family. Most people get smashed. As I told someone earlier today, I was always a welcome addition as I was the DD. Alcohol does not sit well with me and one drink will usually make me ill for days, I figure its not worth it but the parties are still lots of fun. It’s been years since I had the opportunity to join into one of them though. It’s usually too busy a season for late nights and drunken revelry!

DC has worked his magic with the Service and it is already uploaded for your convenience. Thanks to RC, I have figured out how to add the link right to the button at the end of this message. But just in case…The YouTube channel is

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Vw0Zt_Cxtg&t=996s

Words to the service can be found on the blog kjlaldin.blogspot.com

It is a virtual communion service so please have bread and wine ready and set your tables as we share the meal together. If you are not quite ready you can always hit pause — see there is a positive side to this format. Pause, fast forward, rewind and immediate animated participation if the preacher says something you disagree with!!!

As well, a reminder that TS is hosting a service by Zoom at 10 am tomorrow. If you would like to join please contact TS and he will send you the link.

December 27 there will be a “service” of sorts for you. Lots of singing, there were a goodly number of requests, some additional participants from the comfort and safety of home and a beautiful Christmas story. I did the welcome and closing — RC said “you wouldn’t want people to think you are not working!” Hey, I’m the ideas person and I have no problem delegating as I think a few of you have experienced. I like to say I voluntell, you know strongly encourage people to express their many talents, some known and some being discovered.

I know that for many this will be a difficult Christmas as we can not gather with family and friends. But as we celebrate the light of Christmas in our world today and through the next 12 days we look to better days and offer the hope, peace, joy and love that we have celebrated these past weeks and know that a new year means new possibilities.

The travelling Trio will be visible in the service but their journey will wind up today at the home of the Bishop. If you were a host and did not send in pictures and/or a travel log please feel free to add to the album. I have been told that this captured the imagination of all ages, so likely something that might be worth repeating another year so that others may have the opportunity to share the experience.

A Reminder that the office is closed. It will be open on December 30 from 8-12 and ten re-open on January 4 resuming regular hours of 8-12 Monday to Friday.

If you need to contact me for an emergency of any kind feel free to email, text or call me on my cell phone

Enjoy the Christmas Eve service today and HOPEFULLY with the vaccine we will be back in person sooner rather than later.

Aslan sends his greetings as well, hopefully the picture below will give you a smile as he hangs his head (he is actually trying to get the tassel but you can put your own interpretation on it!) 


Have a blessed season

December 31, New Year and Anniversaries

Well, we made it! We have marked one year together. This marriage has had an odd beginning, after all we were only together 10 weeks when we were forced to isolate from each other and have a separation of sorts. I suspect this relationship has a firm foundation given all the struggles we have been through together and the challenges we have had to face in 2020. I can’t imagine we could be tried more…and I honestly hesitate to say that. But yes, naively, I really thought we’d be back together before this! As Neil Sedaka sings, Breaking up is hard to do….

This week will mark the beginning of the new year and the end of the Christmas season as the wise guys finally make it with those most odd gifts. I do hope that despite having to celebrate in relative isolation you have managed to have a lovely Christmas and will ring in the New Year tonight. I read that there is an Irish tradition where on New Years Eve you open the door to let the old year out. I hope my windows are not frozen shut cause it won’t only be doors that are opened as I bid a hasty farewell to 2020. More like a case of here’s your hat, what’s your hurry!!

On a more serious note, the service for Sunday will be up for Sunday morning. It has been recorded, Music was underway yesterday (really beautiful to work to the singing and music), everyone asked to participate have sent in their pieces and then DC works his magic for us all to enjoy. Once I have the words to the song selections, I will drop them in the blog and it will be there for you to follow along. The address for the blog kjlaldin.blogspot.com

Last Sunday, received an incredible number of views for what is considered a “low Sunday” in the church year. Apparently, lots of you loved the story as well. I was happy to hear that you enjoyed it so much.

A few of you asked that I give a tally of the number of gifts we offered for the Christmas Event that RC and her team undertook. I am not sure of the final numbers for the total links sold. However, what I do know was there were six parishioners who asked that gifts be anonymously given to parishioners and in total we gifted eleven.

We will be back with our regular schedule of Services for January. And please note that we will welcome our intern, SS, with us in just a couple of weeks. Her first Sunday will be January 17.

January 10 is the baptism of Jesus and we will celebrate together with Eucharist again and use the opportunity to renew our Baptismal Covenant for this new year. I will close my eyes and imagine I have a great big branch and give you all a good soaking!

The travelling Trio made it safely through the Advent Season, arrived back at the church and will be ready for more adventures next year. Some of those who had the opportunity to participate directly said how much they enjoyed it and that it captured the imagination. If you did not have a chance to follow them on Facebook with the write-ups that we received from some of the hosts (we have saved them all for the archives) would it be worthwhile creating a file that we can email out for you to read? If you would like that then please let me (the office) know I am sure that our administrator will be happy to drop it to you.

Short but sweet today and as always stay safe, stay well

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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